Life ‘How can I understand I don’t have to sleep with someone for them to like me? I keep forgetting.’ December 21, 2021 Sara Kuburic, USA TODAY Comments Off on ‘How can I understand I don’t have to sleep with someone for them to like me? I keep forgetting.’ We've been told that in order to be liked we must serve a purpose in a relationship, or give something that the other person would want.